Proposal

A January Morning Proposal with Winter Sun at Pier 45

January mornings along the Hudson can feel unexpectedly warm when the sun is out. The light sits low, casting a soft yellow tone across the river and the skyline beyond. With the snow still on the ground, the contrast between winter and sunlight creates a look that feels clean and calm rather than cold.

Erik chose Pier 45 for his proposal, drawn to its open space and clear view toward Lower Manhattan. With One World Trade Center rising in the background, the setting felt unmistakably New York while still offering room for a quiet moment.

Planning and Capturing the Moment

The proposal took place in the morning, when the winter sun adds warmth without harsh shadows. Pier 45’s wide layout kept the scene open and uncluttered, allowing the skyline to stay present without overpowering the moment.

A few elements defined the feel of the proposal:

  • Low January sun, creating soft yellow winter light

  • Snow still on the ground, adding seasonal texture

  • Pier 45’s open waterfront, keeping the moment calm and unhurried

  • One World Trade Center in the background, anchoring the scene in Lower Manhattan

As Erik got down on one knee, the river and skyline framed the moment naturally, with the light doing most of the work.

After the proposal, we moved into the West Village for staged portraits. Walking through the streets allowed the session to stay relaxed and natural, capturing movement rather than posed moments. We photographed along the sidewalks and paused on classic brownstone stoops, using the steps and railings to create intimate, everyday-feeling images that contrasted nicely with the open waterfront.

Why Pier 45 and the West Village Work in Winter

Pier 45 offers clean sightlines and open space, which works especially well in winter when the light stays lower and the crowds thin out. Pairing the proposal with portraits in the West Village adds texture and warmth — narrow streets, historic buildings, and familiar neighborhood details.

For couples looking for a winter proposal that feels bright, relaxed, and grounded in the city, this combination is a strong choice.

Jonathan Heisler Photography is comprised of Professional New York City photographers specializing in photographing private NYC proposals, as well as engagement sessions and weddings.

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Including Your Dog in Your Proposal: A Thoughtful Look at the Pros and Cons

Your dog isn’t just part of the house like a lamp or the fridge — they’re part of your relationship (call it a “thruple”). They are there on all of your walks, quiet evenings on the couch, and everything in between. So it’s no surprise that more people are choosing to include their dog in one of the biggest moments of their lives: the proposal.

Over the years, we’ve photographed proposals where dogs played a central role — sometimes wearing bandanas with messages like “Marry Me?” or “Mom and Dad Got Engaged,” and other times simply showing up as themselves. Your pup adds a layer of personality that makes your proposal even more unique.

Why Couples Choose to Include Their Dog

When a dog is part of a proposal, the moment often feels instantly familiar and grounded. It reflects real life — not a staged version of it. They too are jumping around for joy, and not quite sure what is going on. Some of the reasons to include your dog:

  • The dog is already part of your daily routine, making the proposal feel natural - “Let’s take Sparky for a walk in Central Park, it’s such a nice day and meet friends”.

  • Dogs add genuine, unscripted reactions that can’t be planned.

  • The photos feel personal in a way that’s hard to replicate.

In many cases, your dog acts as a bridge — something familiar that gently guides the moment into something unexpected. When the timing and environment are right, it can turn a proposal into something that feels uniquely yours.

The Practical Challenges to Consider

As meaningful as it can be, including a dog also adds an element you can’t fully control — and that’s not always a bad thing, but it’s important to be realistic.

Some considerations to keep in mind:

  • Dogs don’t follow scripts — excitement, distraction, or nerves can shift the moment

  • Busy or unfamiliar environments can overwhelm some pets

  • A dog may require another person nearby to help manage leashes or attention - We can hold your pup and photograph! Don’t worry about it. WE LOVE DOGS!!!!

The key is understanding your dog’s personality. A calm, people-friendly dog in a familiar setting is very different from a high-energy dog in a crowded location. When these pieces are in place, the dog becomes part of the story rather than the focus of it.

A Personal Choice, Not a Requirement

Including a dog in a proposal isn’t about doing something trendy — it’s about reflecting the life you share. For some couples, it adds warmth and authenticity. For others, keeping the moment between two people feels more honest. Both choices are valid.

The most memorable proposals aren’t defined by who’s there or what’s included, but by how true the moment feels to the couple experiencing it.

This proposal is a good example of how including a dog can feel natural and personal.

Jonathan Heisler Photography is comprised of New York City photographers specializing in photographing private NYC proposals, as well as engagement sessions and weddings.

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A Shared Moment or a Private One? Including Family and Friends in Your Proposal

Should Family and Friends Join Your Proposal?

A proposal is one of the most personal moments you’ll ever share with your person — and deciding who, if anyone, should be there can shape the entire experience. Some couples imagine celebrating immediately with family and friends, while others want the moment to belong only to the two of them. There’s no right or wrong choice — just what feels most honest to your relationship.

Over the years, I’ve photographed proposals that went both ways. Some unfolded quietly, with no one else around. Others quickly erupted with “CONGRATS!”, with hugs, with happy tears, and a group rushing in to celebrate. Each approach creates a very different kind of memory.

What It’s Like When Family and Friends Are There

When family and friends join a proposal, the energy shifts quickly from intimate to communal. The moment becomes something shared — not just remembered, but witnessed.

Often, the proposal itself stays focused and personal, followed by an immediate wave of emotion once loved ones step in. You can have your moment and tell people to meet you nearby, or to give you a few moments before rushing in. The reactions are unfiltered and genuine: surprise, laughter, tears, and that feeling of everything clicking into place all at once. Those first few minutes afterward tend to be some of the most candid and emotionally rich moments of the day. Group photos naturally follow — a mix of spontaneous embraces and more structured portraits — capturing not just the engagement, but the people who helped shape the couple’s story.

Reasons Couples Choose to Include Family and Friends

There are many reasons couples decide to make their proposal a shared experience:

  • You want to celebrate immediately, without waiting hours or days to tell everyone

  • Family and friends play a central role in your life together

  • You value collective memories and shared milestones

  • You know your partner would love having loved ones present

Reasons Couples Keep It Private

On the other hand, many couples intentionally choose privacy — and that choice can be just as powerful.

A private proposal allows the moment to unfold slowly, without external energy or expectation. There’s space to react freely, speak honestly, and sit with the experience before sharing it with anyone else.

Couples often choose privacy when:

  • They want to stay fully present with each other

  • One partner prefers low-pressure, intimate moments

  • The proposal feels deeply emotional or personal

  • They plan to celebrate later in a separate way

In these cases, the absence of others doesn’t make the moment smaller — it often makes it more focused.

There’s No “Better” Choice — Only the Right One for You

The most meaningful proposals aren’t defined by who’s there — they’re defined by how true they feel to the couple. Whether family and friends are waiting just out of sight or not involved at all, the proposal should reflect your shared dynamic.

Some couples want the joy to ripple outward immediately. Others want to hold it close first. Both are valid. Both are unforgettable in their own way.

If you’re unsure, ask yourself one simple question:
Do we want to share this moment as it happens — or savor it together first?

The answer usually becomes clear.

Jonathan Heisler Photography is comprised of New York City photographers specializing in photographing private NYC proposals, as well as engagement sessions and weddings.

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A Snowy January Proposal on the Met Museum Stairs

January brings a quieter pace to the Upper East Side, especially when snow is on the horizon and the temperature is below freezing. Andrew proposed on the steps of The Metropolitan Museum of Art, with snow lightly falling. The setting was iconic but unforced, letting the architecture and weather quietly shape the moment.

Planning and Capturing the Moment

The Met stairs offered a strong, recognizable backdrop while still leaving space for the proposal to feel personal. The snowfall softened the stone and reflected light naturally, keeping everything evenly lit despite the winter conditions. After the proposal, we stayed nearby for staged portraits, moving through the surrounding Upper East Side streets and into Central Park for a quick moment.

For their posed portion of the proposal we photographed:

  • On 82nd Street, using the historic Upper East Side townhouses across from the Met

  • Along Fifth Avenue, capturing the couple mid–crosswalk with yellow taxis passing behind them

  • Inside Central Park, just steps from the museum.

Each setting added a different layer — classic architecture, city movement, and the park — without pulling away from the story of the proposal itself.

Why the Met Area Works for a Winter Proposal

The area around the Met offers an ideal mix of scale and intimacy. The museum steps provide a strong focal point, while the surrounding streets and park allow moments to unfold more naturally. In January, especially with snowfall, the entire neighborhood takes on a quieter, more refined look.

For couples looking for a winter proposal that feels iconic but grounded — architectural, seasonal, and unmistakably New York — the Met and its surroundings are an excellent choice.

Jonathan Heisler Photography is comprised of New York City photographers specializing in photographing private NYC proposals, as well as engagement sessions and weddings.

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A Winter Afternoon Proposal in DUMBO Near Celestine

DUMBO Brooklyn in winter feels scaled back as compared to the summer when this place is a tourists dream. The crowds thin, the New York weather is overcast and the light reflects softly off the East River, and the bridges stand out against a quieter backdrop. With patches of snow and ice along the waterfront, the neighborhood takes on a clean, seasonal look that feels distinctly New York without being overly busy.

Behind the restaurant Celestine, the space opens up just enough to take in the river and the Manhattan Bridge, while still feeling tucked away from the main foot traffic. It’s a setting that works especially well in winter — calm, open, and intentional. Bunmi chose this spot for exactly that reason.

Planning and Capturing the Moment

The proposal took place in the afternoon on the way to drinks. The colder temperatures kept the area quieter, and the snow and ice added subtle texture to the background without distracting from the moment. A few things helped shape how the proposal unfolded:

  • Afternoon winter light, keeping skin tones natural and the scene evenly lit. Traditionally, we can only photograph here in the afternoon. In the morning, this spot is very tricky photograph

  • The Manhattan Bridge in the background, grounding the moment in DUMBO

  • Open space behind Celestine, allowing the proposal to feel unhurried and private. It’s not crowded like the area near Jane’s Carousel

As Bunmi got down on one knee, the bridge framed the scene naturally. The winter setting did what it does best — simplified the environment and kept the focus on the moment itself. After the proposal, we stayed nearby for a short set of staged portraits. We moved to the orange Brooklyn Public Library building, using its bold color and clean lines as a contrast to the cooler tones of the waterfront. The shift added visual variety while keeping everything close and cohesive.

Why This Area of DUMBO Works for a Winter Proposal

The space behind Celestine offers a quieter alternative to DUMBO’s busier streets, which becomes especially valuable in winter. The combination of open river views, strong architecture, and nearby portrait locations makes it easy to create a complete set of images without moving far or overcomplicating the plan.

For couples looking for a winter proposal that feels intentional, seasonal, and unmistakably New York, this part of DUMBO is a strong choice.

Jonathan Heisler Photography is comprised of Professional New York City photographers specializing in photographing private NYC proposals, as well as engagement sessions and weddings.

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